What is your opinion?

My ex left me 4 weeks ago for the 2nd time to be with his co-worker/roommate . We have been together for 7 years. He told me he tried to love me again but it wasn;t the same, he was hoping he would. 2 days earlier he looked into my eyes and told me he loved me!!!

Well his girlfriend is 27 he is 42, she is short and slim, no butt or chest. her skin is gray and she works as a cable guy with him. her hair is brown and stringy. I don't know personality wise . She looks dirty and no men would turn his head. I know you all think its because he left me for her! Not so, I can give praise on another womans good looks. She is the total opposite of me, I am an RN have my own house, my own car (she doesn't have a car now) and like to keep clean and looking good. He was always MR clean, hygiene and all, why in the world would you pick this nerdy looking girl? I know you especially men think its the sex! (But that gets old too.)

What is your opinion?

I realize this must be a little hard to swallow because you are questioning yourself and where you went wrong. As I see it - he does not deserve you - there may be genuine reasons why he is with her but he does not deserve you. Seems like you are doing ok and it's time to change the locks and change your phone number - minimize him in your life. Cherish the moments you had and call it quits. He is an idiot and has succumbed to simple pleasures. Move on - you have a stressful job as it is - you don't need this relationship drama in your life. There are some good looking patients and very good individuals that cross your path on a regular bases - find them - forget this loser of a guy!