Not to sound arrogant at all because I'm not, but I'm pretty and dress really cute. I have big gray eyes, clear fair skin, dirty blonde hair to my shoulders, full lips. I'm 5'9" and curvy (not "fat curvy" either), but guys at my school (college) act as if I'm invisible or just unappealing. I really don't know why and it's seriously depressing me. If I could get some guy's perspectives on this, maybe why they think I might not be getting attention, it would be helpful. One more thing, I am pretty soft-spoken and reserved. I'm definitely not outgoing or chatty. Is it because of that? I'm 19 and I'm ready to have a boyfriend!
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
I see the pics........Id hit it!
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
I don't see you, where is your avatar?
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
Maybe they think you are unapproachable because you are quiet try talking to them first to show you are a real person
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
Who said that????
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
you not invisible be confident in your skin and the right guy will come along, Ps: have faith
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
You need to learn the art of flirting. Guys respond to girls that show them attention. If you're quiet, they probably just assume you aren't interested and look past you.
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
hey, be yourself, there has to be a guy right for u! the time just hasnt come yet. Try to socialize with them more. Be more outgoing! =]
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
be nice BUT act as if u don't care if they no u or not (don't act desperate or clingy) GOOD LUCK
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
sweetheart, i think i'm in lust with you... :D
i always fall for gray eyes... mmmm... ;)
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
maybe they are intimidated from you so try to flirt and stuff.
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
step out of your comfort zone!
not to far tho
have a get together and invite some guys!
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
Act like you want to be noticed!! or become a stripper. lots of guys like those girls. :)
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
Is someone speaking, I hear a voice but I cannot see anyone.
Just kidding, but you may have hit the nail on the head there. You probably need to express a little interest in topics guys in your classes talk about. You don't have to lie or anything but just speak up in class and that should get people to notice you more.
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
too tall
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
You just need to start talking to some guys, or maybe you are so pretty that they are scared to approach you.
Don't worry there is nothing wrong with the way you look. I am the same way, very shy and reserved.
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
it's not ALL about looks hun. Your reserved nature might have something to do with it.
Take chances, make mistakes (Ms. Frizzle, hell yeah!!)
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
Well college guys aren't really interested in having girlfriends. They like to play the field. So maybe because you are reserved they may think that you are not slutty. So that's a good thing they are ignoring you. Just keep being yourself and a great guy will notice you. If I were you tho...stay away from college guys
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
College guys are morons. Get a real man. Use your feminine powers on someone who deserves your attention. Don't play the dumb girl routine or you'll be bored with whoever you get.
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
Why do you think you are invisible ? For a moment can you stop thinking so, and see what happens ?
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
Mix with others, show your side that people don`t see, then you will be over run!
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
Maybe they fear you or are shy because you are to pretty or you are exagerating on your prettiness
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
Being reserved can be perceived as "stuck up." You should start with small talk with kids that sit around you. Just ask them a question about the homework or readings assigned the day before. You have nothing to lose by talking to a guy. If they just blow you off, you are better off not talking to them ever again.
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
I'm not a guy, but I don't think you should be having a problem with them. You should try to start the conversations though, it might help you to get to know them if you step up first. Don't always expect the guy to make the first move and if your anxious. Just go for it!
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
Finding a guy in college is especially hard. I'd say your best bet is speaking up in classes or at the "hot spot" where people hang out. Get a job ON CAMPUS and you'll meet people at work, (like customers or fellow workers). Put yourself out there, clubs or groups. If you have confidence, you'll find someone. IF you are alone now, it just means you are not finding the right one yet. But I honestly feel theres someone out there for EVERYONE, just be patient.
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
mabey they like you but ar e scared to ask you so they try to ingore you that is what i do when i like a guy and i dont know if he likes me or not
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
Alright when you dress cute and stuff and are around guys do you talk to them or do you pass them by hoping that they will stop what they are doing to chat with you? Sometimes you have to make the first move on a guy with starting up a convo somehow with them. Be yourself find some common grounds with them and flirt a little and you should be on your way to a boyfriend.
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
You just need to start talking to more guys. The more you talk, the easier it will be for you to find a guy.
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
ok i am not in collge yet but this is what happends to me at my school i mean i have alot of guy friends and i am not ugly eather but my guy friends say that i intemidate guys like i dont come off easy and thats what guys are looking for have you ever noticed that hot guys have ugly girlfriends well that is because there easyer than pretty girls. so its not you its them.
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
hmm sometimes you have to put yourself out there. let us know that you're available! lol stop hiding!! :] i bet you're so pretty that guys must tell themselves "man why bother, i bet she already has a boyfriend' you know? :] but other than that... don't worry. i'm sure a guy will come in no time! :] good luck.
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
show us a pic first and we can answer
Why Am I Invisible to Guys?
You said college.. Normally college is pretty clickish. If you have girlfriends that are getting attention from boys and you do the same thing socially, I'm not sure. If you're not already. I'd reccommend joining a social club..Sorority etc.
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